This page is dedicated to my grandparents, George and Mary
Fry.
George Franklin Fry
(1914) met Mary Lincoln Heins (born 1916) when they lived on the same street
back in the early 1900s. Childhood friends since the beginning, George and
Mary were inseparable, exchanging letters when George went into the service.
Growing up very poor, Nana quit school in the 3rd grade to take care of her
sibllings. Pop had to quit in 8th grade to help the family financially
working as a waterboy when they were building NJ Highway Route 29 and also took
a job at Yellowstone National Park.
Married in 1938, they
first gave birth to my mom, Joyce in 1939 and my uncle George in 1941.
My grandparents went
through The Depression like most people their age but always managed to provide
for their family. Pop worked at Gould Battery for 38 years and Nana as a
cook worked for The Lambertville House, a major hotel/inn in our town. I was
very lucky to have grown up with my grandparents in our home unlike alot of
kids. I will never forget my grandfather's sense of humor or the way he
would make faces at my mom when she turned her back. Nana was always there
every morning to make me breakfast, usually eggs and toast, and she'd ask
"scrambled or poached" every morning.
My grandfather was an
avid collector of "antiques" aka junk :) People would stop by all the time
to see if he has this or that. Of course, it was never free. "One
man's junk is another man's treasure".
On February 26, 2002,
fourteen days after her 86th birthday, Nana passed away at home with her family
by her side. My uncle came over and comforted my grandfather over the
death of his "Lambie", by telling him God needed an angel in heaven to watch
over all the children up there.
.
On August 5, 2004, Pop
died also at home at the age of 90. My mom and I were by his side and I
truly believe he knows we were there although he had spoken or really woken up
for 2 days before his death. They would have been married 64 years when my
grandfather passed away
Nana and Pa,
We love and miss you and
you will always be in our hearts forever.
Love, your granddaughter,
Kellie
Their Song:
Love, Me By Collin Raye
I read a note my Grandma wrote back in 1923
Grandpa kept it in his coat, and he showed it once to me
He said, "Boy, you might not understand, but a long, long time ago
Grandma's daddy didn't like me none, but I loved your Grandma so
We had this crazy plan to meet and run away together
Get married in the first town we came to and live forever
But nailed to the tree where we were supposed to meet instead
I found this letter, and this is what it said:
"If you get there before I do
Don't give up on me
I'll meet you when my chores are through
I don't know how long I'll be
But I'm not gonna let you down
Darling wait and see
And between now and then
Til I see you again
I'll be loving you
Love, Me."
I read those words just hours before my Grandma passed away
In the doorway of the church where me and Grandpa stopped to pray
I know I've never seen him cry in all my fifteen years
But as he said these words to her, his eyes filled up with tears
"If you get there before I do
Don't give up on me
I'll meet you when my chores are through
I don't know how long I'll be
But I'm not gonna let you down
Darling wait and see
And between now and then
Til I see you again
I'll be loving you
Love,....Me."
And when he was done
his chores, he went home to be with her too.